The Stressful things in life do not include public speaking or being filmed
Being filmed for a short video ranks as one of the most stressful things I have done in my life – well is it?
We have all heard that public speaking always ranks high on the list of things that people get stressed about and even try to avoid.
I knew that being filmed was going to be part of the seminar that Bitpod hosted at the Exeter Business Network event on 4th April at Sandy Park – little did I know how nervous I would be and how did this rank on the list of stressful things in life
I carried out some research – well used Google
The following study carried out by Dr Thomas Holmes and Dr Richard Rahe was a real eye opener…..
Life events that occur in our lives such as death of a loved one, pregnancy, divorce or redundancy can lead to an increase in stress, which if left unresolved, could develop into a serious health risk.
Different crises in our lives can result in different impacts. However, in many cases it is possible to anticipate these events and even prepare for them.
The SRRS (Social Readjustment Rating Scale) was created by Dr. Thomas H. Holmes and Dr. Richard H. Rahe. Based on their well known study in 1967 into the effects of life events and the subsequent follow-up studies, the two doctors came up with a chart that lists a total of 43 events that can cause stress. Each of the events are ranked in order of their LCU (Life Change Unit), starting with the most high risk changes down to the lower risk ones.
Although there are many other factors in life that can lead to stress, Holmes and Rahe decided to concentrate on just these common key events.
Their theory suggests that any stressful events could be linked with higher chances of illness developing.
While this approach is obviously a simplification of complex situations, using the SRRS can provide you with a useful start in adjusting to life-changing events.
The test works by adding up the LCU points of the events that have happened to you in the last 12 months – this will give you your LCU score.
The Social Readjustment Rating Scale:
Life Event |
LCU |
Death of spouse |
100 |
Divorce |
73 |
Marital Separation |
65 |
Prison Term |
63 |
Death of a close family member |
63 |
Personal injury or illness |
53 |
Marriage |
50 |
Being Fired from work |
47 |
Reconciliation with spouse |
45 |
Retirement |
45 |
Change in health of family member |
44 |
Pregnancy |
40 |
Sexual difficulties |
39 |
Addition of family member |
39 |
Major business readjustment |
39 |
Major changes in financial state |
38 |
Death of a close friend |
37 |
Changing to a different line of work |
36 |
Changes in frequency of arguments with spouse |
35 |
Mortgage or loan over £10,000 |
31 |
Foreclosure on a mortgage or loan |
30 |
Major change in responsibilities at work |
29 |
Children leaving home |
29 |
Trouble with in-laws |
29 |
Outstanding personal achievement |
28 |
Spouse begins or stops work |
26 |
Starting or ending school |
26 |
Revision of personal habits (dress, manners, associations) |
24 |
Trouble with boss |
23 |
Change in work hours, conditions |
20 |
Change in residence |
20 |
Changes in school |
20 |
Changes in recreational activities |
19 |
Changes in church activities |
19 |
Changes in social activities |
18 |
Mortgage or loan under £10,000 |
17 |
Changes in sleeping habits |
16 |
Changes in number of family gatherings |
15 |
Changes in eating habits |
15 |
Going on holiday |
13 |
Christmas |
12 |
Minor violation of the law | |
Changes in living conditions |
25 |
How many holidays do you take in a year?
Christmas only comes but once a year!
My experience does have one similarity to those in the list – with the support of others we (you) can get through most things in life.
The video will be out soon!
Thank you to
Alex and Angi Wren – Bitpod who set the filming up
Alison Jobson – Reflector operator and lighting
Cathy Towers – posture coach and relaxation
Tom Peters – script – The Little Big Things – Lunch
Supporting Cast
Mandy Blackler | Casino Select |
Laura Hill | ExeterGolf & Country Club |
Richard Searight | 2DAY Microportals Ltd |
Christine Steele | RevivaUK |
Wayne Bennett | Herne European Consultancy Ltd |
Carley Warren | The Passage House Hotel |
Sarah Podro | The Castle Hotel |
Steve Scott | Chatting-Scott Partnership |
Andy Hilton | ExeterExecutive Travel |
Michael Green | Endorse HR |
Chip Tofan | Independent Utilities |
Dennis Elliott | Chocabloc |